Man?Women? Equality?

A man is expected to be a money maker for the house and handle the so called "manly" matters,

While a women is expected usually to be a housewife and handle the so called "girly" matters.

And then we hide around the beautiful concept of soulmates forgetting though,the essence of it.

When you say two people are each other's lobsters,what do you mean by it?

You mean they are each other's soulmates.

You mean they are two parts of the same thing.

You mean they are two pieces of the same heart.

You mean they are one soul living in two bodies.

You mean they are EQUAL and they are SAME.

And then you expect a man to be a man and a women to be a women.

How flawed is the concept as simple as that??:)